Leading a
marital life is like drawing cart with two bullocks. Unless husband and
wife, compared with bullocks, lead the life balanced without any ups and downs,
no family finds happiness in their lives. Every human is having his/her
own feelings, restrictions or conditions but while leading life with other
partner he/she has to sacrifice or change his/her attitudes or feelings. Both
the husband and wife should assimilate the needs of their life as well as the problems
of their life.
Both the
life partners are interdependent and both should coordinate each other and
carry the burden evenly. There should not be any uneven feeling i.e., one
is carrying heavy burden and the other is carrying less burden. Sometimes
wife’s burden may be more when they are visited by relations or friends.
To cook and serve the relatives wife works hard but at the same time husband
should also balance the burden by sharing or helping his wife in cooking,
laundry and serving in addition to his bringing vegetables, eatables, etc.,
from the market.
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| Happiness with Sharing The Load!!! |
A couple of months back my husband took up the
#WashBucketChallenge which is
the second phase of the Blogger Activity by Ariel in association with Blogadda and for the first time he helped in washing
the clothes and from that day onward he continued helping me in not only
laundry but also in other household chores. There has been a lot of change in
my life before and after #ShareTheLoad initiative by Ariel. Now my work is
being shared by my better half and now we have more time to spend with
each other.
Before:
Few months back, when this #WashBucketChallenge as
well as this #ShareTheLoad concept were
not there in existence, that time I am the only person to look after all the
household chores including cooking, laundry, cleaning etc., I used to struggle
a lot to manage both my blogging work as well as the household work, especially
in the weekends. Performing incessant household work alone without being shared
by my life partner I couldn't day out and couldn't enjoy our planned tour programs.
After: After my Husband took up the #WashBucketChallenge and
after having shared the workload by my spouse, now I am in a having enough time
to enjoy and fulfill my chalked out plans and started enjoying my life with my
life partner. This sense of
equality within my household lead to more quality time with each other and
resulted in success for the household. Any work shared by
both the life partners will lead to happy and more balanced home.
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| Happiness with Sharing The Load!!! |
So #ShareTheLoad
and share the love at home by sharing the household works and be a reason for Happiness, as sharing the load ultimately leads to Happiness!!!
I am writing for
the #ShareTheLoad activity
at BlogAdda.com in
association with Ariel.
